Loneliness and Belonging at the University

A program to help students understand loneliness and create robust social connections

The university can be a lonely place.

The American College Health Association’s research in 2018 showed that 63% of American college students reported feeling “very lonely” in the past year. This was before the Covid-19 pandemic moved lectures online, shuttering students into dorm rooms and Zoom rectangles.

We know that social connectedness is a key predictor of academic success and mental and physical health, but it takes work, intention and care to create networks for students to understand those needs and find each other. This course is designed to help bridge the institution and the individual, and bring students into a conversation about loneliness that is practical, creative and forward-moving.

How does this program work?

We’ll draw from well-researched practices of expressive writing, storytelling, and dialogue to help students understand and contextualize their loneliness, and then counter it by taking tangible actions towards building networks of authentic relationship.

Each week, we’ll dive into research on why loneliness is at an all-time high, including the impacts of social technology, Covid-19, and evolving workplace cultures. We’ll learn about innovative, on-the-ground projects aimed to counteract loneliness, and grassroots projects that let us see social connection in a new light.

Then we’ll use expressive writing, active listening, and dialogue exercises to help us find our own stories and voices, hear each other’s, and do the practical work of creating social connection in academic institutions.

This program is hands-on, fun, and grounded in research. We’ll draw from a diverse crew of writers and academics, including Vivek Murthy, Sherry Turkle, Mia Birdsong, John Cacioppo, and others.

Chris Fraser (she/her)

Who are we?

Firefly Creative Writing is a small business based in Toronto that has built a thriving and engaged creative community for the last eighteen years. We currently run over 100 writing programs a year, including a series of customizable Workshops for Workplaces. The founder, Chris Fraser, holds a Master’s Degree in Adult Education and Community Development, and will be the facilitator for this course.

Practicalities

This program will take place over 4 - 6 two-hour sessions, on Zoom or in-person within the GTA. The fee ranges from $1,800-$3,000 depending on the length of the program, the number of participants, and the location.


What organizations are saying about working with us:

Government of Ontario logo

I managed an incredibly hardworking team at the Indigenous Justice Division, overseen by the Government of Ontario. We supported Indigenous families with experiences of loss, racial and social injustices. Day in and day out, my team offered selfless and nurturing care. I wanted to give them the chance to reflect on their courage and resiliency.

Firefly Creative Writing gave that back to us ten-fold. In a single afternoon, through the power of words and stories, we were transported out of our heads, back to our hearts and towards our shared connections. When we left, we had been lifted up, to be able to carry on the work. I highly recommend booking a workshop with Firefly. The value of building trust in this way with your team cannot be under-estimated.

Terry Swan
Former Manager, Programs Indigenous Justice Division, Government of Ontario


Scadding Court Community Centre logo

Throughout the past few months, Firefly has sent us some amazing facilitators such as Kim, Asifa, and Mary who worked with our group of youth to deliver powerful writing sessions. Many of our youth enjoyed the process of taking time out on a weekly basis to put their thoughts on paper, reflect on their current situation and share their pieces with their peers.

The facilitators did a great job in creating a welcoming environment while addressing heavy themes such as family, relationships, emotions, and self-talk. I can't describe the number of times I was blown away by the writing pieces shared by the group and how true to their lived experiences.

Labib Chowdhury
Youth Services Coordinator, Scadding Court Community Centre


Bread By Us logo

My leadership team participated in a workshop at a time where our relationships to one another were evolving and transforming. Honestly, it exceeded my expectations. I always expect magic with Firefly, but this went beyond that.

The facilitator came in with so much knowledge about workplaces, relationships, dynamics, and so much more. She put things into words for us that we didn't have vocabulary for before entering the space. She balanced all that knowledge with being super down to earth.

We came out of the workshop with new vocabulary, new insights into each other, and feeling very connected. It was also really fun!

Jessica Carpinone
Owner, Bread By Us